World Without Strangers

world without strangers is boring.
yeah i met so many strangers and they give me so many stories to know.

well, i have a community - actually i have many communities, but this one is discipleship community - that we've been together for about 2 years or more. we make a meeting every two weeks and share everything that happened in our life and get lessons from our mentor or friends' experiences. well, we get many rich things in this community, just like another ones i have, but i find sisters like family, in here.

this little group, consists of 4 growing-up girls and a mother of 2 cute children as the mentor, is a group of strangers. you can say it unique but yeah we're strange for sure. we pray in a house or public place, we talk like children and laugh all the way, we share for hours and still continue the conversation in chat room. i never mean to show how religious we are. i want to show how important a community is in our life.

and the funny thing is, we started it all by being completely strangers. what are we now is something we never imagined. it's awesome!

so, simply greet the strangers with your beautiful and pure smile. may be they need it at that time. may be it's time to start a new friendship. may be it can brighten up your day, and theirs for sure.

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Girls: Complicatedly Unique

Many guys asked me about girls, yea because i'm a girl. they are curious how girls react of them, what girls think about them, and what they should do to attract their crushes?

It's funny that i'm not the expert and i'm not the researcher of "the kinds of girls", as you know that girls are complicated. by their minds, attitudes, opinions, especially during pms. i am a girl, but wait, i dont get angry easilly during pms. when mostly girls like romantic surprises or words from their crushes, i'm not a kind of that girl.

How simple it is if i say that we can't measure or judge girls generally because each of the girls is unique. but, it's true! totally! Just like you boys! (except you want to be ordinary, valued generally like your another male friends)"

We can say "mostly". yes, mostly girls like pink. they also like ice cream, cute accessories, shiny things, dolls, hiking, selfie, update cool photos on instagram, got surprises, kiss on forehead, colourful paperbag, wi-fi, dogs, or even wet-tissues!
But, when all girls that read this post comment below and apparently disagree, it will show they aren't in mostly area and they are personally unique.

So what should you do to attract that beautiful girl in your mind?

I have some simple rules, but sometimes mind and a-too-sensitive-feeling complicate them:

1. you like her? be her friend. be with her friends. then you'll find out her cuteness and shabbiness when she's in the circle of friendship
2. you like her? be yourself! why you have to change like a Korean actor when you know she's mad with Korean drama? why you have to spend your savings for future when you read her post in Facebook that she wanted a hundred of roses? and why in the world, you have to pause, or even stop your hobbies because she asked you to? (well yea, boys will be boys, i know what you want) if she doesn't like you, why you guys have to complicate it by changing your style, by starving for a month, or by doing something you dont like? the one who likes you all the way you are, is the worth one.
3. you want to know what's in her mind? ask her! you want to know why she didn't text you for days? ask her! you want to know why she's mad by sudden? ask her! there are two possibilites: a. she'll answer and you'll understand. b. she won't answer and you'll get confused. try to step back and give more time before you get biten.
4. say what you mean, and mean what you say. sweet talk, flattery, is just something that make girls fly. when you don't mean it, they fall and it hurts.
5. believe this: God has prepared someone that is just for you. but you have to know, that God is preparing you too to be the great partner. when you are not in one vision with your "current partner", you still have time to think about it again.

I told ya i'm not the expert but i know a little part where girls want it about (especially me..wahahaha)
Knowledge about human is just too much to learn, so enjoy your endless study!

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