Buy Me Something

one thing is disturbing my mind right now. and i need your help.

my mom ever asked me if my boyfriend bought me one or two things as a gift, or even if i asked him to buy me something i want like dress, shoes, bag, whatever. i said i don't have anything i really want and i don't wanna use his money to make myself satisfied. it's because i'm not used to. i always control my mind to buy something i really need, not something i want (though sometimes i don't..haha), and i always use my own money. it felt so weird to see you want to buy something but someone pay it for you. may be it looks usual for you, but not for me!

and today, the same question was popped out from my aunt. the worse is, she gave many examples when some guys buy some expensive things to her daughters. so let me think, is it really worth?

i don't really need a guy buys me anything, but honestly every girl [including me] will really happy to be given many gifts. but don't think anything bad, my boyfriend has bought me some gifts but not so often like my mom's hope or my cousins' boyfriends has given. it's quite enough for me to show he cares about me.

he should do one thing to show the real care, not with a truck of money but "him". giving his own self and always be with me are the most beautiful gift for me. i'm not trying to be so romantic but that's all i need! okay, don't be hypocrite, of course we need money but in the next list, right?

so do you have any suggestion or opinion about the topic? because sometimes it feels good but sometimes it doesn't. some older people keep telling me how you need someone who loves you buying everything you want. maybe it shows his care [more than he cares his money] or ... i don't know. haha

at least, let my boyfriend use his own way to treat me well. i just wanna know some ideas you have, what the world says, because i'm in my curiosity and it's dangerous.. x)
have a blessed day ahead, fellas. Gbu