Friendship

"Friends are like roses...you have to look out for the pricks!"

i don't want to say that friends are the people we should avoid to. who can live without friends? that quote is just to remind us, that nobody can be a perfect friend. but it doesn't mean that we don't have to have nice guys around us. people said, if you want to have a good friend, be a good friend because this universe is like a magnet. or you wanna try to be a good guy? find a place of good people and nice things with fine thoughts. there's no place like heaven in the earth, but we can make it exists by doing good and never regret for having bad times in it because that's what friends are for: sharing!

i know the things that she likes, she doesn't like, she afraid of, what always she says, etc. and she knows mine too; because we're sharing. and it feels like you have a twin sister or brother that you can't live without.

friendship is beautiful. 

though we can't say every friendships are. let's share about friendship here! i'll tell mine first..haha 
actually i don't really believe in "best friends" - in this world. [just the Best one in heaven]. i just have close friends, that's what i thought. it's hard to say BEST for anyone that you know he/she will hurt you someday. and it's because i can't be a best friend for anyone so you know why. and when i lost one or two of my close friends, i realize that i'm just not quite good for them. or may be they have some standards and it's to high for me to be. so i have to be kicked out from the list of best friends. i don't know. but i really appreciate a relationship that i have with anyone: friendship. i'm just not good enough in expressing that beautiful thing. really. 

therefore according to me, friendship is like a tower. you need some elements to build it up strongly. they are TRUST, OPENNESS, WARMTH, UNDERSTANDING, and LOVE; and NO STANDARDS! may be you can add some more elements? tell me! 

yeah, wherever you go, whatever you do, i know you never harm me [trust]. i tell you everything [openness] and hug you when you feel down [warmth]. i won't be mad for your mistakes [understanding] coz i'm definitely happy to know that you are with me sincerely [love]. you don't have to be rich or always by my side, or funny, or have a foot, i'm your friend [no standards!!]. 

how sweet! 
and remember: the higher the tower, the more our tests to maintain it. 

i just share about this topic in basics and whatever the sparks of friendship, we still should face it to get some better things. i know i'm not really good on this but who am i to judge myself or even you. :) 
so if you have some thoughts about friendship to share with me, just comment on the box below and let us learn how precious it will be. 

"As we go on we remember, all the times we had together. As our lives change come whatever, we will still be friends forever" -Vitamin C ~ Graduation Day Song