Cry Then Smile!

you don't have to ask why women cry, or simply i'll talk about it.

as a woman for 19 years, i've found what my tears are for. sometimes i gratefully realize why i was created as a woman and have a lot of stock of tears. i won't write much. here a famous story about why women cry. whoever the author, thanks for the powerful words for women all over the world.

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A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I'm a woman," she told him.

"I don't understand," he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.

Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"

God said, "When I made the woman she had to be special.

I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world,

yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."

"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

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sometimes i [and maybe you do too] cry for those reasons:

1. sad, depressed, ignored, lonely, etc. so many things and problems in your life can make you feel down and lock yourself in your room and don't wanna meet anyone then crying. women automatically would feel so free, relieved, and tougher; without knowing by us, we finally have an additional power after crying and sleeping [of course].

2. laugh too much. i enjoy the moments with my friends because they are so amazing. sometimes we have so much fun and do anything stupid, laugh at each other, teasing, making jokes, making bullshits and when the most perfect part to laugh non-stop is started, we cry! dude, everyone does.

3. eat something hot and spicy. owh, i hate that. if someday i can't find a drink to release the terrible taste, may be the tear will be useful.

4. feel something hurt. my finger, my skin, or even my heart! ugh.. >.<

5. watching a dramatic movie. One Day, Hello Ghost, Titanic, i need tissues!!

6. slicing the onion. i can't cook if i cry!

7. after i feel angry. yes, sometimes i'll cry after i feel angry.it's not about feeling guilty but a way to silence myself and think again why i should angry.

8. no reason. i just wanna cry after tiring times, then sleep and wake up with swelling eyelids. hohoho

have another idea to cry? [give comment!]

and for all MAN in the world, there's no law that forbids you to cry though it will be better if you do not cry, so often. i like a guy who can laugh anytime [but not crazy] and cry at the right time. here, a clip for you guys from my favorite YouTube artists!

check it out, yow!

Shed A Tear - ChesterSee, Kevjumba, Nigahiga

So, for all WOMEN, we're beautiful! 

tears can make us relieved but not make us more beautiful. yeah, you can use it when you really need it. but one thing to be more beautiful and a MUST is:

SMILE :)

Why Won't You Smile - ChesterSee ;)

Have a great day! don't forget to smile.. :D